AngelicTygress's Blog
Happiness in relationships
April 1, 2008Is it even possible for someone to feel real happiness and love with someone they're only infatuated or obsessed with? What harm does a relationship like this do to someone? To me, unless something is as real as possible, be it through something spiritual or with real love, then it's not real and the happiness is fake as Monopoly money. There's no real purpose with infatuation, no real connection unless it is the shallow kind. I worry about anybody who goes through infatuation and thinks they are happy just because they are with someone drop dead gorgeous or handsome without feeling a real connection. You can't judge loved ones by how alike you think they are to you nor by unfair ideals. Not everyone can be a model or have clear skin, or be adventurous, or built like a body-builder. Happiness is not about superficiality, it's in spite of it. Don't love him just because he is a handsome and athletic man and don't love her just because she is an adventurous super model or whatever shallow ideal seems to pop into mind.